Hey, Women can be generous as well. I am down with that. Generally speaking historically, men typically have provided the brunt of raw materials to the world for women and children. As for physically active, that I am.
Ha ha! To be a devil's advocate, what part of the example you gave made them a pervert? I am assuming the false pretense that they are looking to be friends, when they may want something more.
Yes. It is my view that men should generously provide resources to their families and communities. For the other part, sorry that your medical condition made it difficult to gain weight. I am glad that is better now. I am very active and can outpace people a lot younger than me. I have a tendency to hurt my back if I get too much belly though!
